I Peter 1:13 “Prepare your minds for action and exercise self-control.”
New Testament descriptions of holy living often include self-control. BibleHub explains the Greek word néphó used here by Peter as being sober and unintoxicated, having presence of mind, clear judgment, and self-control. It is the opposite of being irrational.
Clearly, God wants me to discipline my thinking and actions, to overcome temptations, to not be impulsive. The use of the term self-control means that God wants to engage my will; he never forces himself on anyone. Self-control is essential for yielding to the Holy Spirit’s leadership – not denying that I have a will, but choosing to conform it to God’s will. Even when accused falsely, I can testify about the reality of God by behaving in ways that honor him. 1 Peter 2:12 “Be careful to live properly among your unbelieving neighbors. Then even if they accuse you of doing wrong, they will see your honorable behavior, and they will give honor to God when he judges the world.”
How different is God’s way compared to human nature. Many people these days are looking for conflict, eager to take offense over even the smallest perceived slight. There is a kind of perverse thrill in having one’s nerves on edge and exposed, ready to be jangled and frayed in anticipation of a fight. Yet Jesus Christ “did not retaliate when he was insulted, nor threaten revenge when he suffered. He left his case in the hands of God, who always judges fairly.” (1 Peter 2:23).
Self-control does not come easily. Nothing important is ever easy. But I want to follow Jesus’ example of self-control in words and actions, especially in this time of disunity and open hostility. A true Christian must never repay evil for evil, or retaliate with insults when insulted, but instead pay back with a blessing (1 Peter 3:9).
Father, as American society grows farther from you and ever more divided, please help me and all of your children to anticipate more opposition, insults, and exclusion. And when attacks come my way, please give me courage and strength to hold onto truth, to exercise self-control, to behave honorably, and to pray a blessing over my enemies.
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This week: If someone is trying to make your life miserable, ask God for wisdom in how to respond with truth, love, and grace. Ask God how you can initiate peace instead of escalating conflict. Romans 12:17-18 “Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
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